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I am writing this post in honor of a woman who influenced my life in a big way. I may not have known her personally, but her teachings awakened new feelings, new realizations and new experiences in my life. She is none other than Psalm Isadora. 

I have joined her online Masterclasses and one that profoundly made a positive, or rather a mind-blowing impact in the way I perceive life and sexuality and divinity was Tantra: The Art of Sacred Sexuality about a month ago. 

She was a goddess with the spirit of a warrior.There are only a handful of women warriors in the world. I want to be one of them.

I have already written something about The Grace in Waiting in December 2014, and that was in relation to the Advent season, but the message was about waiting for the right love and person.

Sooo, fast forward to 2017, yes, today, I am still waiting. But guess what, now,  I am waiting for a lot of things in my life. Not just for love and the right person, but also with regards to my career. I am waiting for an answer to a proposal that I sent to my client and a bigger one for my personal life.

Yesterday, while I was waiting for my friend , I decided to sit down at a coffee shop, but I didn't want to order coffee because I know I won't finish it in time when my friend arrives. So, starting to feel anxious, I remember I had my gratitude notebook or journal that I try to carry with me all the time, so I took it out and thankfully, I had brought a pen!

So I have written this blog post about soulmates called Soul Mate: What I Learned From Deepak Chopra which unfortunately there were questions there that were supposed to be answered by another blog of mine. That blog called A Day in the Life of Anne is now unpublished so I want to post down below what was originally written there. 

Soul mate.

The word is very familiar to all of us. This is what everybody wants to find, the ultimate fulfillment of our love life.

But do we really know what a soulmate is? Before we find our soulmate, we need to know what it means in the truest sense of the word. I am lucky to be able to stumble upon some material by one of the greatest thinkers of our time, Deepak Chopra. And listening and reading to it filled my cup of knowledge to the brim.

I have learned that:

1. A soul mate is a soul that's resonating in the same frequency as you are.

2.To attract your soul mate, you need to have the right mindset and that is not to look for the right person, but to become the right person. Every relationship is a mirror of the other. You must first know what kind of person you want to be, or the kind of relationship you want to have. When you finally have all the qualities that you want, then the soulmate will show up to reflect those qualities.

3. Many people find themselves unlovable or incapable of loving which leads to their inability to experience true love. The world can sometimes be a cruel place, people grow up with labels stuck on their forehead. The incapability of someone to be lovable basically goes back to his childhood. Many things may have been said and done to him/her by parents, siblings, friends and everyone that's essential to personal growth.

This is one of those times that I need to write down what I feel.

I know I am a good writer, if only I could write a damn good love story for myself, wouldn't that be awesome! But no matter how good a writer we are, there is somebody else who has our best interest at heart.


He is the master story maker. You might ask, if God is the master story maker of our life, then why does He allow us to make mistakes in choosing the right partner for ourselves?

Why doesn't He impose the person that is meant for us? That would have saved us from a lot of hurts.

Because we have free will.

We are given the option to follow which course of life we want to, and to fall in love with the person we want to fall in love with. And that sometimes can be tricky, because we do not know how it might end up to be. We don't know how we would be treated by the person we offered our love to.

You make a choice to gamble on love.

I have always been a very loving person. I do not know of a time when I scrimped on love. I always said that I have so much love to give, but some people can just be soo unreceptive to love.

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